The Weird Edge That Others Want

The Weird Edge That Others Want

Do you feel like people either freaking love you, or they fucking hate you? Like there’s no middle ground? When you make friends, it doesn’t necessarily make sense WHY you hit it off with that person, but you do, and it’s an instant connection. Or (perhaps more often)...
Huge Feet and the Path to Muchness

Huge Feet and the Path to Muchness

From the time we are young, we are told we are too much . . . something. We’re too quiet, too loud, too big, too small, too weird . . . There is always something. Something we should change, fix, shift, transform. So that then the world can shout us down for...
Why Your Higher Self is Dangerous As Fuck

Why Your Higher Self is Dangerous As Fuck

So you’ve heard that you have a Higher Self. You even accept that she’s there, a part of you, but yet standing to the side of you as well. But yet you aren’t sure about really getting in touch with her. You’re not entirely confident in stepping into her and letting...
Don’t Unleash ALL Your Expertise On People

Don’t Unleash ALL Your Expertise On People

So I was chatting with a friend and she started telling me about a woman she met. In a nutshell, what was supposed to be a short meeting turned into a long mostly one-sided discussion about the other woman’s “expertise” and experiences. I’ve heard this a few times...
Everything I Do Is Crap

Everything I Do Is Crap

Those were the words that I snarled into the silence of my house earlier. Feeling like I just wanted to break things and feel something hurting. “Everything I do is CRAP.” It felt good to say it out loud, because it was a release of the thoughts that have...